Tag Archives: people

What have I learned about myself in autumn 2018?

Following my efforts to learn about myself in summer 2018, I observed the followings: Meeting people drains me and I need alone time to re-charge. While I cherish people, being in a meeting with people consumes a lot of my energy and attention. On 20181005, after two weeks of meeting many people including my boss, […]

How to walk away from someone or something that is not right for us?

Sometimes, we encounter someone or something that is not right for us. For the sake of our sanity and serenity, we must walk away or minimize exposure to them. To walk away: nurture inner strength to keep calm. practice self-love breathe be firm on our decisions learn to accept some things are not going to […]

Why do our peers matter?

On 20180613, a former colleague shared how his application to volunteer at a primary school where he hopes his son (born in the same month and year as Little Prince) will attend, was rejected. The school has too many aspiring applicants! His main motivation of sending his son to a better primary school was that […]

How to face life greatest adversities?

On the eve of my sister’s 28th birthday, I woke up at 5am plus to cook breakfast and lunch boxes for Little Prince and myself. Then, we headed to see the dentist who works from 7 am to 3pm, for the 2nd of 3 root canal treatments for Little Prince teeth K and L. Thankfully, […]

How to deal with backstabbers?

“Most people want to see you do better, but not doing better than them.” – London Mond Therefore, it’s important to learn from and work with from people who are better than us. On 20180429, I spoke to an uncooperative colleague P, who did not know that he was back stabbed by M. Ironically, P […]

How to deal with whining children?

In spring 2018, perhaps Little Prince knew that I love him very much that I won’t have the heart to beat him, he started to whine and argue with me over some of my directions for him. While I have to deal with backstabbers and uncooperative colleagues, I also have to deal with a little […]

What would you do if you married a psychopath?

On Valentine 2018, I gave my husband a box of chocolates, brought him to a nice restaurant, and served him sexually (including an activity that caused me to suffer from an infection in the past). After that, he started to verbally abused me. That’s fine he didn’t give me any gift, but I do not […]