Tag Archives: Malaysia

What would you do if you married a psychopath?

On Valentine 2018, I gave my husband a box of chocolates, brought him to a nice restaurant, and served him sexually (including an activity that caused me to suffer from an infection in the past). After that, he started to verbally abused me. That’s fine he didn’t give me any gift, but I do not […]

How to stop lactating naturally?

On 20180123, I asked Dr T (an obstetrician/gynecologist) how to stop the production of mother’s milk naturally, without medication. It was my first (and perhaps last) consultation with her and she sounded unhappy that I was still producing mother’s milk for her thinking that I breastfed, but when I later explained that I pumped, she […]

What are our daily affirmations?

Affirmations are sayings that we believe to be true. The  Latin word affirmare originally means “to make steady, strengthen.” Affirmations help purify our thoughts and restructure the dynamic of our brains so that we truly begin to think nothing is impossible. Affirmations can bring serenity and hope to our lives. To me, affirmations are among […]

Why is it hard to forgive?

On 20180112, at Royal Rose Hotel, we sadly learned about Zainab Ansari of Kasur, Punjab, Pakistan. I could not imagine the pain that her parents went through, losing the beloved apple of their eyes. It also a reminder to us that human beings are capable of evil. When one encounters such a tragedy, it is […]

How to focus on flowers instead of flaws?

Many things are not perfect, we live in environments with flaws, but there are also flowers. It’s what we focus on that matter! In the evening of 20171205, I brought Little Prince to attend his first Christmas Tree Lighting Event at Beach Rotana. It was an unplanned visit which I decided upon learning that I […]

How to have happy and successful play dates?

As of 20171004, Little Prince has been to four different play dates (at three different families) in this autumn 2017 as planned. We look forward to more happy play dates that allow us to learn and make more friends. Little Prince enjoyed playing toys of his friends (especially given how minimalist we live), we also […]

Why must we draw?

In autumn 2017, while guiding and encouraging Little Prince to learn writing alphabets and strokes (汉字笔画), I realized that one needs to learn drawing too. I must remember to be patient and teach him in line with his ability (因材施教), which is growing as days pass. He has been slowly exposed to four different languages, […]