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How to stay calm?

We accept that we don’t always have beautiful days, but we can choose to always seek the positivity amidst the negativity. To stay calm, remember our priorities when we are flooded with incessant demands. we do our best to use more positive words. learn about adjectives that positively describe ourselves. If others use negative words […]

What are our favorite positive quotes to feel motivated?

I love beautiful words, phrases, and sayings from the wise and the kind. Below are our favorite quotes to self-motivate ourselves: When we really love ourselves, everything in our life works. The Universe, The Divine, & Life reveal to me what I need to know and bring to me what I need. History [1] does […]

What are our stories in autumn 2017?

This is part 1 of our autumn 2017 stories. On 20170813, I went for a medical test (a blood was drawn and I had to take a chest X-ray) for my work visa. Since their system has my fingerprints, I do not have to go for fingerprinting collection again. My sponsor paid for a fast […]

What are our checklist living in a service apartment?

From winter 2016 to autumn 2017, my family and/or I lived, not on a continuous basis, in different service apartments. We rented daily or monthly. For more lessons (for myself), see also ref2017*/*hotel_apartment*txt. Sometimes, I feel like a refugee due to the constant needs to pack and unpack. However, many refugees and migrants (including our […]

Why must we be specific?

In Become a Better You, Israelmore Ayivor reminded us that we will achieve nothing if we pursue everything. Be specific and stay focused. Below are benefits of being specific, from our and others’ experience. *** Being specific can prevent misunderstanding. *** Being specific can help us to live frugally, save money, and prevent us from […]

How to prevent being a scapegoat?

Scapegoating is a lie designed to elevate the status of abusive scapegoaters while keeping the scapegoats down at the same time. We need to proactively prevent ourselves from ending up as a scapegoat. I was first reminded to share this message to the little ones through a song [1]. *** Build our inner strengths. Our […]

What are the essentials to instill in our children?

Towards the end of summer 2017, we received a flyer of a pre-school advertising its approach of engaging children in science, technology, engineering, arts and mathematics, abbreviated as STEAM; it seemed that STEAM is the new trend, previously it was STEM. Although they missed the s for the mathematics in their flyer, I was impressed […]